“I almost don't want to do this. It entertains an awareness of what we are faced with, each time we fall pregnant, that I don't want to confront again...”

We went through the shock of this realisation 3 years ago when we first found out about Steve's balanced translocation and it was horrifying to research, to say the least - we waited just two more pregnancies before we conceived Ella, though, so it kind of softened the information we found. There are so many variations with reciprocal translocations, and this one is just one kind. The most common, in fact.